The Truth About Starting Over (Again)

Starting over isn’t failure, it’s redirection. In this heartfelt episode, DeAndra shares the truth about what it really means to start over again and again. Whether you’re leaving behind a job, relationship, city, or version of yourself, this episode is your permission slip to evolve.

DeAndra opens up about her own pivots from hairstylist to event designer to soft life business mentor—and the emotions, fears, and wisdom that came with each transformation. You’ll walk away with a new perspective on what it means to begin again, plus practical tools to help you feel safer and more grounded in your next chapter.

💡 In This Episode, We Explore:

• Why starting over is not shameful—it’s sacred
• How to shift from fear to alignment during a life pivot
• The truth about not starting from scratch (you’re starting from wisdom)
• What to do when your journey feels messy, unclear, or foggy
• How to soften your transition and create your “to-be” list

🛠️ Soulful Tools & Takeaways:

• Reflection Prompt: Is it fear holding me back—or a truth calling me forward?
• Reframe: “If it feels familiar, it’s not failure. It’s depth.”
• Action Step: Write your Soft Start List — not a to-do list, but a to-be list.
• Voice Note Ritual: Thank your past self for getting you here.

💬 Quote to Share:

“You’re not behind. Nothing was wasted. You are safe to begin again.”

📥 Resources Mentioned:

• ✨ The Clarity Blueprint — Free PDF to help you gain direction in your next chapter
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