Episode 30
How I Stopped Chasing and Started Attracting
Welcome to the very first episode of The S.O.F.T. Method™ Podcast!
Formerly known as Creative on the Grind, this podcast has officially stepped into its next evolution. Hosted by DeAndra Jalisa, multi-passionate entrepreneur, business coach, and soft life curator, this space is where self-worth meets overflow—and feminine becomes your strategy.
In today’s episode, DeAndra shares the powerful story behind her personal and professional shift:
from chasing success, love, and validation... to attracting everything she desired by simply becoming.
This is your permission slip to let go of pressure, embody your worth, and lean into a softer, more aligned way of living and creating.
💫 In this episode, DeAndra explores:
- Why over-functioning feels “normal” but leads to burnout
- The difference between chasing energy vs. attracting energy
- How childhood patterns can shape your relationships and business habits
- Her experience with overgiving in dating and entrepreneurship
- How she reframed rest, stillness, and self-worth in real-time
- What it really means to “attract what you are”
- Three signs you're chasing instead of becoming
- How to embody the woman you see in your vision—and trust it’s already yours
🔥 Key Takeaway:
“You don’t attract what you want—you attract what you are.”
When you stop proving, pushing, and over-functioning, you create space to receive the things that are already aligned with your becoming.
🧘🏽♀️ Journal Prompt:
Where in my life am I still chasing instead of becoming?
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